2020 Hindsight: 20 Years on Opposite Coasts

On the 61st day of 2020 I was reminded that it has been twenty years that my parents (and, following them, most of my immediate family) moved to the West Coast.  Yes, I saw my mom post on FB that twenty years before 3/1/2020, they moved to Moraga, CA since my dad had a job in San Francisco.  It was going to be a short-term move, but the climate and the outdoors environment have been such good experiences for them, that they've decided to stay.  And thank goodness for vacations, for phone calls, for FaceTime, for Facebook, for that matter, and the myriad ways that we have stayed in touch.  Sure, we are not physically present with each other as much as we might have been, but we also never take any moment we have together for granted!  My 2020 Hindsight is 20 years on opposite coasts.  In this case, distance has made the heart grow fonder, and our family bonds stay strong!

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